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I’m not sure where to start with Mike’s and my busy summer. At a high level: I’m almost done with marathon training for Portland (the race is this Sunday!), Mike has been doing lots of home improvement projects, my role at work has changed to being an engineering lead in addition to my old role, Mike’s work has morphed towards more of a systems engineering role, Mike can successfully grow rosebushes, and I have been cooking up all my CSA produce diligently every Sunday afternoon and haven’t let anything go bad. Oh, yes, and Piper has another urinary infection (UTI’s for those of us who are very familiar with the acronyms at this point).
That’s our summer in a nutshell.
I mean, there are lots of other things I could say. It was a beautiful summer. Lots of warm, sunny days, lots of relaxing evenings at restaurants (well, one evening a week, which is what Mike and I usually keep ourselves to), time with friends, long hours running in sweat-soaked shirts (which has transitioned this fall to long hours running in rain-soaked shirts)… and so on.
So that’s a very high-level synopsis of our summer. But what are we actually doing? On a day-to-day basis? In a way that doesn’t read like a resume of our lives and a list of events (since life is, after all, much more than a list of events or a series of checkboxes).
Let’s start with the small things. Yesterday the weather turned suddenly and surprisingly cold and rainy. Well, I was surprised anyway. I probably don’t look at the weather report often enough. I ended up going to work in a thin jacket on a cold, blustery, rainy day. I made it to work, but when I went out to grab lunch I made the decision that I was not going to spend all afternoon frozen. I made a beeline for the shopping district downtown and walked right into Nordstrom Rack with a hunch they would have a nice scarf to keep me warm. Just inside the door was a rack filled with the fluffiest, most giant scarves I had ever seen (slight exaggeration, but only very slight). And they were on sale. Very rarely do things in life line up this nicely, but this time they did. I grabbed a green striped one, and literally three minutes later I was on my way again with the widest, fluffiest, most giant scarf ever wrapped around my head and neck. It was so fluffy, in fact, that I couldn’t bring myself to take it off when I got back to the office. So I took my coat off, but continued to wear my fluffy scarf. I got so many comments on my fluffy-scarfed appearance that afternoon that I lost count. My favorite was from a co-worker who said I was morphing into a Babushka (read: Russian elderly woman). Right. On. The. Mark. I refused to apologize for the scarf or take it off. I let any of the doubters feel how fluffy it was, and pretty much had everyone convinced by the end of the day that it was the best scarf ever. It shed green fluff all over my office chair and my nice, black coat, but there is a price that must be paid for warmth and I was more than willing to pay it. 🙂
While I’m on the subject of winter-wear, I have two coats for this type of fall weather in Seattle, and I’ve been alternately wearing one or the other over the past couple of weeks just depending on which one I happen to grab off the coathook on my way out the door. One of them has a hole in the left pocket, and the other has a hole in the right pocket. It is a constant battle of memory to make sure that I remember which coat pocket has a hole in it on any given day. If I’m not careful, I’ll wind up putting something in the coat pocket with a hole and it’ll fall out. The struggle is real, people! (#firstworldproblems) I am pretty sure that a less lazy person would just sew the holes shut, but that is apparently not how I roll. I prefer to look at it as a test of my memory each day. Let’s see… phone goes in the left pocket today.
Last summer was really hot and dry and one of our rosebushes out front died. It was a yellow rosebush but I have never cared for yellow roses, so I asked Mike if we could replace it with a white one instead. We went to Skye Nursery (the most amazing plant haven ever!!) and picked out an Icecap white rosebush early this spring. Mike did a bunch of research on planting rosebushes, even though I told him that all he had to do was dig a hole in the ground and stick the rosebush in it. Technically he didn’t even need to dig a hole, since the hole was already there from the previous dead rosebush. However, Mike persevered and planted the skinny little stalk in the perfect way at the perfect depth with the perfect potting soil, and that thing has thrived!! It is putting all of the other rosebushes to shame and is still brightly and proudly blooming with a bunch of blossoms now while all the other rosebushes have lost their blooms for the winter. It’s such a little beacon of whiteness from the front of the house. I love it!! So, in case there was any question on the matter, Mike can grow rosebushes. Awesome rosebushes that put all other rosebushes to shame. (And this surprises exactly no one who knows Mike.)
And what about the bigger things that are slightly more impactful than rosebushes and scarves (although honestly I feel like those are two very impactful things in my life)?
Let me talk about work. I’m a software development engineer in test (which means pretty much exactly nothing to someone not familiar with the software field). What I do isn’t really important, especially not to talk about on a blog. But I do want to talk a little bit about what I’ve been working on this summer, because I’ve been working a lot on team development which is something that is a lot more relevant to most people than most parts of my job. We had a big re-organization around the first of the year which resulted in four new teams. A few months later, I was moved to being the engineering lead for one of the teams. New teams are a funny thing. All of the people on the team are trying to get a sense of where they add value, what areas they are the subject matter expert in, how to interact with all of the other team members, etc. Bottom line: no one’s very comfortable. Everyone’s trying to figure out the new team dynamics. I felt a little ill-equipped to lead a team, especially a newly-formed team, since management really isn’t my thing. It was a lot of work…. figuring out how to be a team lead, how to prepare and report weekly status, working with the program manager for my team to define priorities, estimate engineering effort and complexity for each month, serve as a buffer and decision maker for the team, make sure everyone on the team stayed focused on the right priorities, and helping all of the team members find their niche on the new team. But the really cool part is that I feel like we are there. When I watch the team interact in meetings, I love what I see. All of the team members feel comfortable enough to speak up, voice concerns, have disagreements in a respectful and sometimes humorous way, no one is afraid to admit when they’re wrong, and everyone is a subject matter expert in some areas. It makes me feel really proud of them. And a little bit proud of myself because I feel like I helped facilitate that. I helped create that environment where everyone feels free to speak up and everyone has a place. In our quarterly meeting with all of the leads and managers, the manager of the program managers said that he had taken time to speak one-on-one with each member of the engineering team, and that they were all happy and feeling good about the team and about their work. My manager attributed that to me (not strictly true, of course, because I had a great group of people to start out with… but even so, it seems as though I’m doing something right in this “engineering lead” role). So, anyway, finally I’m able to talk about some of my work that isn’t just relegated to being some “technical” stuff that no one’s interested in hearing about. 😉
And of course, lots of running for me this summer training for the Portland Marathon! Some pictures from my runs:
In case you weren’t aware, I seriously live in the most gorgeous city… these cityscapes just never get old for me. 🙂
I also participated in the Girls Who Code program that Groupon hosted in Seattle this summer. It’s a program that teaches high school aged girls how to code.
Speaking of things I love… these two top the list!
And speaking of Piper… what would a blog post be without a couple cute pics?
I’ll also include a couple pics of my work in the kitchen so that everyone actually believes I’m still cooking regularly. 🙂
On a completely unrelated note, Mike discovered this fall that he actually likes pumpkin beer despite not liking pumpkin (although, really, who doesn’t like pumpkin? It’s basically just like squash and what’s not to like about squash??), so we’ve had our share of pumpkin beer around the house this fall. I think it’s really helping Mike get into the “autumn spirit”. How is it already almost Halloween? The holidays will be here before we know it! There are only three weeks left of the CSA produce, which is a little crazy. It feels like I just started getting deliveries.
On another note, Mike has been taking bunches of pictures with his camera so that he’s all prepared for taking pictures at the marathon this weekend! Hopefully he’ll get pics of me, my friend, and her husband since we’re all running. In all likelihood my friend and I will run the race together and her husband will run on ahead because he’s speedier. Mike’s all prepped with his camera to get good action shots! And this will be a good trial run of being gone for a night or two away from Piper, since we’ll be away for five nights going back to Michigan later this month. Hoping that she does fine with us gone and just the cat sitter coming in to take care of her and give her the daily fluids!